Our expectations are getting higher and higher everyday. People who are from India can relate to the analogy I am going to give.
Few years back before Reliance Jio plans came, We are spending way too much for the 3G/4G, voice plans, rate cutter and sms also. After Jio came, we began to get 1GB 4G data, unlimited calls,sms all at cheap plans. We are happy initially. Now again we have started complaining about the data not sufficient for the usage. Just think about it , one thing which made you happy before is not enough now.
Like this in life We are setting our happiness way too high as we experience more things. Our expectations might motivate us to do more sometime,but most of the time its shouting we are not happy with what we have now at our face.
You know how special you were to be when you were my present, I have laughed a lot , at the same time cried a bit with you. I have achieved but also failed sometimes. I don’t think about those laughs and success all the time now, In the same way don’t expect me to stick to my cries and failures. I am matured enough to be humble with success, Don’t you think I am matured enough to forget my failures?
You are so cruel sometimes, in my sadness you remind me of my failures and shortcoming backing up with lot of facts. Only If you could just do the reverse, Reminding me of my success when I am sad. I would have kept those memories with gratefulness.
Sometimes people say ability to forget is a boon. I also believe that now. I don’t want to add your burden by making the present the regretful past in future. I have moved on, I have started working with present to make it better tomorrow. you also move on , be bold enough to let go of all your sorrows.I have no grudge on you, I wish you also don’t have any. Don’t burden yourself by keeping all those memories, Just let go of hurt,tears and failures. Keep it light with happy carefree laugh and success. I am planning to add the same to you from now on. Present and future is having more faith on you, Because you made me who I am today and you will make me more strong than today.
Your present and future.
I loved her , She loved me. She was perfect. Unfortunately, not for me, I let her go.
Perfect people also scares us. Either we doubt them or just get the guilty feeling of not deserving them. May be we got used to imperfections in life 🙂
Let few people be imperfect, yet real.
Having up and down in life is okay. But why does life mostly seems complicated, struggling, tough! Is this like this for everyone?
We always believe there is success after every struggle, there is happiness behind every sadness.We embrace the struggle in hope of succeeding . I wonder are we want only seek out for struggles? Is our belief of struggling brings success becoming reality ?
Oh there is strange thing I have heard people say, don’t laugh too much , you will cry soon . Are we what ? Astrologist !
Don’t expect anything, struggle , success, happiness, sadness, nothing . Go with the flow of life. Put your heart and effort in the things you do, if you achieve something then great, if you Don’t achieve it , then also good . Live in the moment.
Can you think how often you hear this ‘I can’t’ ? May be you are the one saying it or you hear others often say this. I wonder how come we are so sure about , ‘we can’t’. Did we try that before ? Did we push ourself to that extreme and failed ? Even if we have failed, why can’t we succeed again with few more attempts.
Out of all those people say ‘ I can’t’ Only very few actually tried it ever. They assume they can’t do , just because of fear . They convince themselves and others. Did you ever try pushing people to actually try it once ? After lot of reluctance, when they do it , they succeed eventually.
Let me explain this with a story. Two people are doing excercise . One guy ask other “How many push ups you can do ?”
Other guy replied “100 push ups” , hearing that first guy challenges him to do 150 today.
Other guy replied “I can’t do it man, that’s beyond my limit” Still the first guy insists him to do with a exciting bet.
Second guy couldn’t deny it , He tries to do it with determination to win the bet.
He first do 100 , with little doubt he proceeds to do 50 more. Eventually he had completed 150 and was actually very surprised. He had done something which he always thought he can’t do . What do you think was stopping him ? He himself! with the limitation he had created in his mind.
Just think about it, Even people with disability are achieving heights in life with strong will power. But we , whom world believes to be perfect healthy persons, Live in our beautiful little world with the illusions we have created about yourself. Push your boundaries , little by little every day. Disability exists, but only in our mind. A person is as disabled , as he thinks he is.
Whatever happens in your life , you are the writer of the story. You think something and your brain believes it and it happens and we think that’s what would have happened anyways. But the truth is it’s our expectation and we actually got what we expected.
For eg, When you are afraid of something would happen, your brain being a obedient servant ,interpret that as your wish , do all possible things to make it happen. So try this trick, when you are afraid of something, tell your brain that won’t happen ever and make it believe , then watch your fear vanish from your life.
Introvert person are like melody songs,which are good even in alone times, Can bring a smile on your face.But Extrovert person are like pop songs, Which are good for party. By hearing them, you began to follow their beat.
Extroverts are like simple article , with its catchy phrase many read it and like it instantly. Introverts are like dense poem, many don’t understand it in first read, yet when they understand it they love and cherish it 🙂