Human psychology says you fell in love with the person , you spend most of your times with.
When you are surrounded by loving people, you feel dependent on them for your happiness. You stay under the illusion that , you feel loved just because of their stay in your life.
Imagine the time when they unfortunately leaves you , you became depressed losing their company. But when you get used to be alone but happy. That’s how you fell in love with yourself.
You don’t lock yourself in room and worry. You go out and shop till you get your awesome collection of dresses, you go and enjoy your favourite sweet. You buy books you love and get lost in it. You spend quality time with you grooming yourself and smiling happily. that’s my story also 🙂