Everything that happens to you is result of your perception. The way you perceive things is different from others. That’s why when same thing happens to two persons, one see that as a hurdle, while other see that as an opportunity.
When you see that as a hurdle, your mind make it more difficult than it actually is. But the moment you see that as opportunity , your mind works on it to utilize it fully. That’s how few succeed but few fail miserably.
However hard your life is, change your perception, Let’s say , you perceive someone as very important part of your life, you just cling to them emotionally and be dependent on them every single minute but unfortunately they leave you alone, you thinks that world has come to an end. You cry, struggle to get them back in your life. Now think again, who’s fault is this? That person who left you ? Or your perception about their position in your life ?
Let’s say, you had plan to go to office early , but you missed the alarm and slept for some more time. Suddenly you woke up with sigh . You perceive this as big mistake of your’s. You scold yourself for being irresponsible and got irritated. Now you end up having irritating day. But imagine if you just change your perception and think, now you got nice sleep you will be fresh the whole day and end up finishing all the task actively .Same will became reality. So the choice is in your hand. Change the perception and see the wonder it brings.